56: Bad Advice Part 3 - The Dangerous Kind
Host Ellen Dorian dissects dangerous relationship advice, offering insights on love imbalances, misguided solutions, and the importance of proactive relationship maintenance.
Part 1: The Dangers of Unequal Love
- Explores the advice: "Be with someone who loves you more than you love them"
- Discusses the negative impacts of this approach on relationships and self-worth
- Highlights the importance of mutual love and respect in partnerships
Part 2: Misguided Solutions for Relationship Problems
- Analyzes common "radical" solutions people try when relationships struggle
- Examines why these solutions often fail to address underlying issues
- Emphasizes the need for internal repair before external changes
Part 3: Debunking Myths About Relationship Help
- Addresses the misconception that seeking help indicates serious problems
- Explains the benefits of proactive relationship maintenance
- Encourages viewing relationship help as strategic planning rather than crisis management
Key Takeaways:
- Love should not be a power play; imbalanced relationships breed resentment
- External fixes cannot solve internal relationship problems
- Preventative maintenance is crucial for healthy, long-lasting relationships
Call to Action:
Ellen encourages listeners to identify and address any misguided ideas in their own relationships. She invites them to share other examples of bad advice they've encountered.
Closing Thoughts:
The episode emphasizes the importance of leadership in relationships, urging couples to address issues proactively rather than waiting for crises to occur.
Support & Resources:
Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.
All links can be found below.
"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love With Your Wife and In Your Life.'" - Ellen Dorian
Disclaimer:
The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations.
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