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Sept. 11, 2025

66: "We Never Fight"-The Bright Side… and the Dark Side Too

Ellen Dorian explores the concept of "never fighting" in relationships, discussing various reasons why couples might claim they don't fight and the potential implications for their relationship health. Part 1: Reasons for "Ne...

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Aug. 28, 2025

65: The Vacation You Didn't Know You Needed

Ellen Dorian, host of Make More Love, shares insights from her unexpected vacation in Lisbon, emphasizing the importance of balancing structure and spontaneity in both business and relationships. She discusses the need for re...

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Aug. 21, 2025

64: “Fish or Cut Bait? A Realistic Look at Starting Over

Ellen Dorian addresses a listener's question about whether to end a long-term relationship, offering insights on recognizing emotional attachment, repairing relationships, and considering the hidden costs of divorce. Part 1: ...

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Aug. 14, 2025

63: Don’t Make These Mistakes That Will Ruin Date Night

Ellen Dorian discusses common mistakes made in restaurants that can ruin date nights, offering practical advice to enhance romantic experiences and strengthen relationships. Part 1: Restaurant Etiquette and Date Night Atmosph...

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Aug. 7, 2025

62: Dessert First-How to Make Your Relationship Fun Again

Ellen Dorian discusses the importance of enjoying time with your partner and offers strategies to bring fun and playfulness back into relationships, especially for busy professionals. Part 1: Rediscovering Joy in Relationship...

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July 31, 2025

61: Stop Your Relationship from Becoming a Business Casualty

Ellen Dorian discusses the importance of balancing business growth with maintaining a healthy relationship. She emphasizes the risks of neglecting one's partnership while focusing solely on business success, and offers strate...

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July 24, 2025

60: Intrinsic Passion – Reignite Desire Without Faking It

Ellen Dorian discusses the importance of intrinsic passion in relationships, focusing on sex and intimacy. She explores why passion fades, differences between men and women, and provides strategies to reignite passion. Part 1...

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July 17, 2025

59: Your Relationship OS Part 2: Practicing Intentional Presence

Ellen Dorian discusses intentional presence as a crucial element in building passionate partnerships. She breaks down this concept into three core habits: attentiveness, authenticity, and resilience. Part 1: Attentiveness - K...

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July 10, 2025

58: Your Relationship OS Part 1: Staying Aligned, Independent, and C…

Host Ellen Dorian discusses the three core principles successful couples practice to maintain strong, lifelong relationships. She introduces the first principle, "Inclusive Purpose," and explains its importance in creating al...

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July 3, 2025

57: Have You Fallen for the Worst Relationship Advice?

Ellen Dorian challenges the popular notion that "all you need is love" in relationships, arguing that this oversimplified view can lead to failed marriages. She discusses why love alone isn't sufficient for building resilient...

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June 26, 2025

56: Bad Advice Part 3 - The Dangerous Kind

Host Ellen Dorian dissects dangerous relationship advice, offering insights on love imbalances, misguided solutions, and the importance of proactive relationship maintenance. Part 1: The Dangers of Unequal Love - Explores the...

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June 19, 2025

55: Bad Relationship Advice Part 2: The Dumb Head Scratching Kind

Ellen Dorian dissects three pieces of bad relationship advice, offering insights on maintaining effort in marriage, handling conflicts, and the importance of apologizing. She provides practical strategies for nurturing long-t...

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June 12, 2025

54: Bad Relationship Advice and How to Avoid it-Part 1

Ellen Dorian kicks off Season 2 of Make More Love by addressing bad relationship advice, categorizing it into vague, dumb, and wrong. This episode focuses on vague advice, highlighting its ineffectiveness and offering practic...

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June 5, 2025

Make More Love Season 2 Trailer

Welcome to Season 2 of Make More Love This is the relationship podcast for high-performing business leaders — where you won’t get the standard relationship advice. Why? Because the life you live demands more than the Average ...

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April 17, 2025

51: Celebrating 50 Episodes and Answering Listeners' Relationship Que…

Today, we’re answering real listeners’ real questions—in real time. These aren’t hypotheticals. These are the exact moments real men are living through right now. From growing resentment during the grind of entrepreneurship, ...

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April 10, 2025

50: Love, Money, and Self-Knowledge in Relationships — with Manny Wol…

In the second part of this deeply personal interview, Ellen breaks down the real-life lessons behind Manny Wolfe’s extraordinary story — from surviving a cult to confronting addiction and rebuilding his life. But this episode...

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April 3, 2025

49: Endless Loops: When Your Relationship Feels Like Groundhog Day (w…

In this first part of a two-part conversation, Ellen Dorian sits down with speaker, author, and coach Manny Wolfe to explore how early life experiences, unresolved trauma, and subconscious patterns can trap us in relationship...

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March 27, 2025

48: When the Going Gets Tough-The Tough Go on Vacation

Summary Part 1: Why Vacations Matter Ellen shares why vacations aren’t just for rest—they’re essential to creative thinking, leadership clarity, and strong relationships. She explains how time away creates space for emotional...

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March 20, 2025

47: Stop Searching for Happiness & Start Making It: Five No-BS Strate…

SUMMARY: In this final episode of the happiness series, Ellen Dorian brings everything together—why happiness matters, what gets in the way, and most importantly, how to actually build it. This episode is divided into three k...

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March 13, 2025

46: Happiness or Resentment: What’s Fueling Your Relationship?

In this episode of Make More Love , Ellen Dorian introduces the Relationship Energy Spectrum and shows how your emotional state shapes the quality of your relationship. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right”...

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March 6, 2025

45: The Truth About Happiness in Relationships

In this episode of Make More Love , Ellen kicks off a new series on happiness —what it actually is, why it matters, and how it plays into having a fulfilling, passionate relationship. She tackles one of the biggest myths in r...

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Feb. 27, 2025

44: Date Nights: Understanding the Assignment!

Date night should be something you both look forward to—not a routine obligation that fizzles out over time. In this episode, we revisit the best strategies for making date night exciting, meaningful, and passion-fueled. Lear...

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Feb. 21, 2025

43: Seriously? How to Bring Back the Fun in Your Relationship

Marriage is already an absurd idea when you think about it—so why do we get so serious about keeping it running smoothly? In this episode, Ellen introduces the Absurdity Principle of Relationship Growth and dives into three w...

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Feb. 13, 2025

42: Stuck in the Doghouse? Here’s How to Get Out—and Stay Out

SUMMARY: If you didn't listen to last week's Valentine’s Day Special—or you listened but didn’t take action—there’s a chance you’re going to be in the doghouse. And if that’s the case, you’re going to need a plan to get out. ...

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